The dress code for our wedding will be black tie. We ask that men wear a tuxedo or black suit and women wear formal floor-length dresses/gowns. We hope you enjoy dressing up in a fancy suit and dress as much as we do!

We will be providing bus transportation from Chatham Wayside Inn to Wychmere Beach Club, please be in the lobby at 1:45pm for arrival at 2:00 pm. We will also provide bus transportation home, when the reception ends and when the after party ends. For those not staying at the room block, there is plenty of parking on site at Wychmere, and there are also Lyfts/Ubers available.

While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults only event. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time.

Unless we have a surprising 75 degree day in November, the Ceremony will take place inside. Guests will then proceed to the cocktail hour that is a mix of indoor and outdoor spaces with heaters. The reception is also 100% indoors.

Ceremony: 2:30 -3:00pm | Cocktail Hour: 3:00 - 4:30pm | Reception: 4:30 - 9:00pm | After Party: 9:00 - 10:00pm| For those that want to keep the party going, Chatham Squire is across from the Wayside Inn.

For those of you not taking the provided transportation from Wayside to Wychmere, and are driving or ubering, when you get to Wychmere, you will drive all the way to the end of the road. You will come to a white gated entrance with a Security Guard. When you pull up, let him know you are here for the Rose/Jasinski wedding and he will direct you to the Harbor Room. This will be on your left as you drive into the premises.

For those in town Friday night, come to the Wild Goose Tavern for welcome drinks to kick off the weekend. Let the host know you are here for the welcome party. Wild Goose is located in the lobby of the Chatham Wayside Inn where a block of rooms is reserved. The Wild Goose is open for dinner, as well as the Chatham Squire and other local restaurants. Make sure to check them out prior to welcome drinks.

While there is nothing formal that is being hosted, we plan to have a bunch of us go to Ember in Harwich Port for some brunch/lunch. If you want to stop by on your way out of the Cape, we would love to see you all! This will be very casual and informal!

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